Love & Life: Five Signs She’s Not Interested In You Anymore
If you’re thinking she’s just not that into you…you might be right. Then again, you might be wrong. Relationships can be totally erratic. Women are known to be fickle. Life itself is uncertain. Put that all together and you’ll be really confused. What a mess!
So, who’s to say if she is still interested in you or not so much? Even if you ask her, can you trust what she tells you? Here are five sure-fire signs from relationship counselors to set the record straight so you’ll know if she’s not interested in you anymore.
Spending Time Together
When a relationship is first starting out, you can’t get enough of one another. Even as the relationship grows and love begins to blossom, you want to spend time all the time you can together. You crave being in the presence of the one you love. You want to learn everything there is to know about each other as your love grows. The best way to do that is to spend time together. On the flip side, when love is NOT growing, spending time together becomes a burden. If your lady is making excuses to avoid spending time with you, it should be a bright red flag.
Love is all about communicating. You talk, write notes or text messages, and you even communicate by body languages like a flirty smile or a knowing look. When love is not in the air, communication is lacking. Your partner might clam up or start to misconstrue what you are saying. Communication becomes a problem long before other issues surface, typically. If your woman isn’t talking, chances are she is saying a lot and it’s probably not what you are hoping to hear.
Honest and Openness
Being honest and open are key factors in a healthy relationship. If your partner is lying or skirting around the truth, you should take the hint. She is just not feeling it anymore. Even if you ask her if she’s trying to ditch you, chances are she won’t level with you. When a relationship lacks openness, you honestly might as well throw in the towel.
Is your partner acting differently? Have tender times turned tough instead? If there has been a noticeable change of attitude and behavior and you think your love is losing interest, you may be exactly right.
When you are no longer in love but are trying to play as if you are, it’s frustrating. It will eventually surface as anger, oftentimes. If your partner is angry much of the time, you don’t want to ignore the sign. It may be the beginning of the end.
When You Need Help Calling the Shots
It’s easy to get insecure and paranoid about a relationship ending if you’re uncertain about it, to begin with. With the signs above straight from the love experts, you are more likely to make the call based on facts rather than on unpredictable feelings.